EVERYONE deserves unconditional love with healthy boundaries. I only recently learnt the difference between conditional and unconditional love... and that my whole life I’ve only received conditional love from my parents and a lot of other family members. I also figured out that my family have an incredibly enmeshed, dysfunctional boundary system. Realising these two things has been a revelation for me because I now understand finally why I seek out relationships with people who only offer conditional affection and then love those people unconditionally myself: I have been reliving the patterns from my childhood where I loved my parents unconditionally as a little girl, but they only loved me based on conditions I could never meet or fulfil. I have been trying to do as a grown woman what my child self never could (win conditional people’s unconditional love). I have always felt so guilty and ashamed of myself for wanting and needing unconditional love, because I’d internalised the belief that I’m not deserving of it (because no one ever showed it to me despite my best efforts). Now I’m choosing to take control and choose to believe that I am a beautiful, strong human being who deserves unconditional love a long side healthy boundaries. I am choosing to recognise that someone else’s conditions are not within my locus of control and not my responsibility to change. Peace and love✌🏽❤️💛 #unconditionallove#boundaries#thoughtoftheday#thoughts#notesfromtheuniverse#youdeservebetter#youdeserveunconditionallove
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It's easy to say "you can decline anything you don't want during your birth," but it's not always that simple. I said NO. I said "stop you're hurting me." I said "get out" & "don't touch me". It was my right as a patient and as a human to set those boundaries and have them respected by my care team, but they weren't.
I remember very vividly the birth of my first child. The memories have flooded me in years of flashbacks, and those memories carved out a piece of me that I can't quite explain. I went on to have a second child, where I tested those boundaries prenatally to quickly learn they were not going to be respected by the medical team options available to me. I stepped outside of the system, and felt instant relief. It was the best thing I've ever done for myself. I ultimately ended up birthing within that system again, without a physician and renowned strength founded in trust for myself. The support around that birth wasn't perfect and I got lucky that I birthed before the physician arrived.
My births were traumatic for me in different ways, and in hindsight the one thing they have in common was that my boundaries, no matter how strongly spoken were not important to the other people in the room. I am a mother to two beautiful souls, and in the moments and weeks, and even years after serving as their entrance Earthside I felt like I failed as their protector. After all that I've been through, when I was finally left alone, I kissed my baby's head and whispered "I'm sorry. I'm so sorry" as tears rolled down my cheeks. The pain I felt in those moments.... I don't wish on anyone.
Boundaries have two sides, and this is my encouragement to evaluate how much you can trust that yours matter to the people you hire.
You are more than someone else’s opinion. You had purposed before anyone else had an opinion about you. Don’t let their limited belief about who you are limit yourself potential to become everything that you were made to be.
They are always going to talk, no matter if you do something absolutely amazing, or incredibly disappointing. They’re feelings about you will change. Feeling are fleeting, so don’t let how they feel manipulate you to feel the same. Stand in God’s truth about who you are and WHOSE you are and don’t waver from that.
You are an answer. You are an answer to someone else’s problem.
You are unquestionably exceptional.
God made to be something more than someone else’s rumor. You are royal. Don’t let someone else’s opinion or rumor about you become your identity.
Don’t minimize your purpose to fit in someone else’s idea of you. You weren’t born to be an assumption, as if God was second guessing you while He was creating you. My love, God was intentional when He made you.
𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐝𝐞𝐟𝐢𝐧𝐢𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐨𝐟 𝐨𝐩𝐢𝐧𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐦𝐞𝐚𝐧𝐬 𝐚 𝐛𝐞𝐥𝐢𝐞𝐟 𝐨𝐫 𝐣𝐮𝐝𝐠𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐬 𝐨𝐧 𝐠𝐫𝐨𝐮𝐧𝐝𝐬 𝐢𝐧𝐬𝐮𝐟𝐟𝐢𝐜𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐝𝐮𝐜𝐞 𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐩𝐥𝐞𝐭𝐞 𝐜𝐞𝐫𝐭𝐚𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐲.
💎You are more than someone else’s insufficient idea and information about you. Operating in someone else’s limited judgment and personal perception about you cheapens the value + purpose that your Heavenly Father gave you.
💎You were made for more, you are more than what they say. Don’t diminish your significance just because someone else is uncomfortable with the way that you shine.
💎You are important and are more than just a whisper and no one can hear. Your voice matters, you matter.
Walk with your head held high, shoulders back, with one foot in front of the other confidently knowing that know matter what anyone says, only God’s opinion about you matters. And He sees you are a remarkable masterpiece.
Rationalization is a form of addiction.
I had a bad day so I deserve to eat this. I had a good day so I’ll celebrate by eating this.
I had a bad day so I need retail therapy. I had a good day so I deserve this new shirt.
He cut me off. She started it. So they deserved it.
They don’t pay me enough so I’ll do personal work on company time.
We rationalize more than we realize and it’s so habitual and natural that I’m wondering if it’s time to get it in check. I’m taking inventory for 2020 and know that I need to stop rationalizing impulse buys based on my emotional state. Using logic, data and thinking about what I could be doing better will be a win for my future self. (Ready for you, Dave Ramsey.)
What do you think you rationalize a little too much?
5 hours ago
Simplehan lang natin 👌
If di ka kayang BIGYAN ng kaibigan, kamaganak o kapitbahay mo ng at least 1M pag nagka sakit ka, magtabi ka ng 100-200 php per day. You can provide for yourself. D mo need magmakaawa. You deserve better. All we need is talk. Coffee's on me.
conserve your energy, money, time, commitment, etc. to someone who will value it. don’t waste it on somebody who you do not truly think deserve or appreciate you and what you have to offer. share it respectively and wisely. don’t let other people take your sparkle. shimmer right there on your own. you go. i’m so proud. #motivation#youshouldbevalued#sparkle#energy#youdeservebetter#youdeserveit
Here’s something some people won’t wanna hear, but I have to say it 👇🏼 •
Cutting toxic chemicals in your home IS NOT HARD OR EXPENSIVE.
You can give yourself excuses, but ultimately, if you wanna see change in your life- you do it. Little by little or all at once, whatever works for you. However, don’t tell me it’s too expensive to ditch & switch. •
I got all this FREE last month. I don’t have to tell you how amazing Thieves is for you & your family, bc if you don’t wanna listen, you won’t hear it. But if you truly want better for your home- you can do it on a budget.
I’m not rich y’all. I just want better. If I can do it, you can do it.
“ long post 👇🏻” Since it’s #tbt here’s a pict of myself 6 years ago feeling “ great “ being overweight with bad eating Habits living the life not my best life cause inside of me I was feeling insecure, low self esteem , without goals in life just living life as it comes ..... thanks to change my eating habits and thanks to join the #herbalifenutrition company not only change physically but also change mentality I’m Glad that I decided to use #Herbalife as a part of my lifestyle I’m so #thankful for joining it I’ll forever #grateful for having change my life ....now I feel Better than ever I totally change my mindset and I still changing every single day ain’t finished yet .... if you are looking to transform your body and change your life don’t let the time stop you from doing that .... time is gonna pass anyways.... so how you want to look in 10 years ? The change start the day you decide to take action for you own good don’t settle for less you deserve Better .... hopefully this post inspire someone that really want to change their life .... .
Autumn shows us how beautiful it is to let things go. -
Those habits that aren't feeding your soul? Let them go.
Those relationships that hurt you more than they help you? Let them go.
The pressure you put on yourself to be perfect? Let it go.
The choices you've made in the past that make you second guess yourself? Let them go.
And you'll feel better for it. ❤
8 hours ago
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8 hours ago
Do we shine after winning our own war? ✨
‘ The times you choose to stand up and face your issues/conflicts makes you reach to the point where loosing is not an option and no longer are you able to live with dissatisfaction or disappointment.
Keep going you are amazing, your doing great! And happiness will definitely meet you at the end of the road or maybe somewhere in between!💛
Hugs and love to my TV3 fam today ❤ and hoping this all ends positively. Who wants to be owned by a vulture fund anyway #cretins#youdeservebetter
8 hours ago
To all you mama’s out there!
Do you ever panic? Panic over how fast time goes by and how quick our babies grow? How much time do we have left? Oh the thoughts 💭 are scary!!
I’m having a moment 🤦🏻♀️ I do quite often, my youngest Scarlett starts high school next year September 2020 😳 what?? High school?? I Could cry 😭!! Where’s my baby gone?
My 2 older children Sam 15 💙 Sofia 19 💗 are grown up and don’t really enjoy Halloween, birthday parties, Christmas or Easter so Scarlett is kinda our last baby hahahaha so to speak 😔
I am as we speak working my booty off (I always have but was always for an employer) I now am MY OWN BOSS 🥳 2 years I’ve been finding my feet but now I’m firmly placed right where I need to be! And this is to make sure they all have the life they deserve, I want to show them anything is possible and I want to spend every second I can with them making memories!! I’m my own boss so I’m home 24/7 I work when I want and from where I choose building a legacy for them 🥰 while also showing other mama’s how they can do this too whether working full time, stay at home mama, part-time working mama what ever they maybe they too can be a boss mama in-control of their destiny’s 💪🏼💗 Would you agree as a mother you do all you can for them including bringing in an income?? Of course we do YESSS🔥
One thing I can’t do is work for others till I retire and have nothing 😮 but one thing I can do is be MY OWN BOSS With no cap on my future income and look forward to the future we have to come because I know it’s coming and I’m so blessed, grateful and excited to share it with you all and my children ❣️❣️❣️ I want you to seriously look at your current situation, really look 👀
If you could create an uncapped income, as little or as big AS YoU WANTED , would you?? If you resonate just pop me some 🔥🔥 below
This mama is on a mission so keep your eyes peeled eyes 👀