Ever think about the energy you are putting out? I’m talking about negative or positive, vulnerable or confident, strong or weak. Are the wrong people coming into your life? It’s time to take a look at the kind of company you attract and the type of energy you were putting out there.⠀
You want to know why I rarely get people being disrespectful to me? I don’t put off weak energy. I don’t put up with any negativity. I won’t give people the chance to affect me in a negative way. Yes things can happen and negative situations aren’t 100% preventable but you can make the choice on how you want to react to them which can ultimately affect the type of energy that you are putting out there.⠀
So how can you start putting out better energy and attracting better company?⠀
➡️Set boundaries. I mean clear boundaries of what you’re going to allow.⠀
➡️ Stop caring what people think. Are these people that are affecting you negatively really caring about you?⠀
➡️Respect yourself. Stop putting other people on a pedestal and thinking that you are less than them. We are all unique.⠀
➡️ Stop reacting and start thinking before you act. People watch other people and their reactions. If you’re allowing people to come up to and disrespect you, people see that and they think it’s OK for them to do it as well.⠀
➡️ know when to say no! There’s no easier way to set boundaries than to clearly speak your mind.
So often we don't realize all the goodness that comes in our day! We are trained to just see the negative, the things that we didn't achieve! Every single day, I sit down and write out all the good things that have happened to me!
It helps shift that energy into the postive and it also helps you see where you can improve and grow!
What is something good that has happened to you today?