💫Unexpected lessons simultaneously learnt for both young and old (well not too old lol) ~ The past few days our little lady has been pushing limits ~ seemingly not listening to request after request to not do certain things. I have found myself close to my limit of understanding numerous times, and tonight an unexpected (as they do) and timely lesson came for us both.
Once again she was doing something that could end in her own tears, not realising the consequences of her actions ~ this time she fell backwards and was caught by her dad but as she was falling backwards, she didn’t know or see he was there, knowing she was doing something that she wasn’t meant to be ~ there was a felt sense between us all, in that moment in time ~ that moment in time stood still and while she pondered her reaction, almost ready to defend herself for what had happened, there was space, space between she and I ~ Firstly I felt and watched her body and energy speak, then I noticed my feelings and consequential reaction. I noticed straight up fear, fear for her safety and then once it had registered she was unharmed I felt the anger and frustration rise up, the build up of days of asking, requesting, repeatedly and not being heard or acknowledged. What happened next was interesting, as I watched and felt these emotions come up there was a felt sense that there wasn’t any need or benefit from expressing these. Our little lady had experienced the natural consequences of her actions, consequences that I feel were far more beneficial than anything I or her dad could say in that moment. My lesson from this experience ~ The more we become mindful and aware of our thoughts, feelings and reactions, there is space, space for us experiencing our humanness in each moment and space for each other to experience our individual humanness together but separately 💫 Each moment we are learning and unlearning, learning how we work in the here and now and unlearning what no longer serves us and what we no longer feel works for us💫 #lessons#life#dailylessons#whoisteachingwho#parenting#wisdomofawareness#selfwork#selfworkrevolution#mindfulness#awareness#sunshinecoast
Saat berada dalam kandungan, Si Kecil belum mengenal konsep siang dan malam, Moms. Ini menyebabkan bayi tidak bisa menentukan sendiri kapan ia harus tidur atau bangun.
Baru setelah bayi berusia 3 bulan, ia siap untuk tidur sepanjang malam dan bangun pagi setiap hari di jam yang sama. Namun jika sudah lewat usia 6 bulan bayi belum menemukan pola tidurnya, tandanya mungkin ada kesalahan saat kita mencoba membangun kebiasaan tidurnya.
Kesalahan ini bisa membuat Si Kecil sulit tidur di malam hari atau malah tidur sepanjang siang.
Between one and two months, babies reach several developmental milestones including moving their heads from side to side when laying down and loving black and white high contrast images • Each baby achieve milestones at different paces but it is useful to know what to expect • I like setting up activities that help the baby learn a new skill or improve an existing one • With a high contrast book, I place it next to, then a bit behind Basel to encourage him to move his head around to look at this • This strengthens the muscles in his neck and back and help him develop more control
بين شهر وشهرين ،يصل الأطفال إلى العديد من المعالم التنموية مثل تحريك رؤوسهم من جانب إلى آخر و قدرة التركيز على صور عالية التباين • كل طفل مختلف و يكسب مهاراته بوقت مختلف • بالنسبة لي، احب استخدم المعالم التنموية كأساس كل نشاط. هدفي دايماً اني اساعد ولدي يكتسب مهارة جديدة و يقوي مهاراته • باستخدام كتاب بصور عالية التباين، اشجع باسل يلف رقبته و يرفع راسه عشان يشوف الصور • النشاط يقوي عضلات الرقبة و يطور تحكمه بحركة رأسه
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Jadi seorang AYAH itu sdh pasti jika kita sudah dalam pernikahan.,tidak ada sekolah yang mengajari kita bagaimana MENJADI SEORANG AYAH yang baik.TERIMA KASIH atas buku yang telah diterbitkan sangat membantu dalam pengajaran pengajarannya.🙏
Belajarlah dari orang orang yang telah berpengalaman.
Rainbow Sensory Bottles 🌈 are bright and cheerful and just perfect for baby and toddlers to explore. You can customize it however you want, you could make an Autumn sensory bottle with conkers and leaves and use lovely orange and brown ribbons. Or how about a summer beach theme filled with sand and shells and topped with yellow and blue ribbons? Sky is the limit! 🌞🍁🌹❄