Being the best version of myself. And sometimes it involves a trim, cut or color.
It also involves reflection, learning from the past, being grateful, changing priorities, interests, and quite frankly getting rid of bullshit behaviors. •
Sometimes change is because of years of avoidance due to grief, running from memories, and dealing with what makes us uncomfortable. •
I bleached my hair for so long because when I go natural, I look like my sister who passed away from cancer and it makes me cry. I hate crying. I bleached my hair because that’s what everyone else likes on me and I’m a people pleaser. I bleached my hair to cover grays. I bleached my hair because I wanted to hide a part of me and show off others. I bleached my hair to be different and so that my kids can easily spot me in public. I bleached my hair because thats what everyone else wanted.
Change always comes with resistance and that means that you’re on the right path. •
Here’s to a great year, and great change 🍻🖕🏼